Writing is to be brave, it is to reveal yourself wholly. It is looking inside yourself – into the chasm – and writing
about what you see, think, and feel. This is my chapter... This is my life... This is me.
You can deny having backbitten anyone, reasoning that you always intend to let your opinion of the person be known anyway. You may have created your own definition of backbiting, extending the borders of what is acceptable, to excuse your own behavior. We must realize that backbiting is unforgivable. It is the worst form of hypocrisy. The intention to hurt another is clear. How the object of scorn will be affected depends on the type of person he is. He may even emerge unmarked by your ugly efforts, but you certainly won't. You ruin you own sense of honor, trustworthiness, and credibility. Don't do it. Learn from the consequences of backbiting and banish your insecurities to eliminate the need to damage another's reputation. Improve yourself and channel your energies into productive activities. Backbiting are for people who have nothing better to do.